Jon Coghill & Tim Reid
Imagine parenting children with autism and hearing your five-year-old say, “If I want a life of joy and happiness, it’ll look like learning to face my fears.” Meet Ben, dad of two little girls with complex needs, who took his autistic daughter to the cinema for the first time – and watched her dance out afterwards. His chat on parenting children with autism is warm, honest, and full of light – hit play and feel the hope.
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Episode Summary
Meeting Ben Before His Friend Arrives
Jon bumps into Ben just before his friend shows up. Ben is dad to two little girls with complex needs. One is a 5-year-old with autism. The other is a 2-year-old with hearing loss. Parenting children with autism is his world, and he’s all heart.
The Early Morning Peace & Bedtime Cuddles
His favourite times come early. Before anyone wakes, he gets a quiet moment to himself. Then, when he walks in from work, the girls run for big cuddles and playtime. Parenting children with autism makes those seconds feel perfect.
Taking His Autistic Daughter to the Movies
The big win happened recently. They took his 5-year-old to see Inside Out 2. Sensory overload is huge for her. Loud sounds and dark rooms feel scary. Yet they prepared her for weeks. She walked out dancing, beaming, and proud. Parenting children with autism taught her that joy comes after facing fear.
The 5-Year-Old’s Profound Lesson
After the movie she said something amazing. “If I want a life of joy and happiness, I think it’ll look like learning to face my fears.” Parenting children with autism gave a 5-year-old wisdom most adults never find.
Finding Hope in the Small Things
They celebrate everything. Tiny wins become massive. For example, parenting children with autism means looking for beauty wherever it hides. It also means staying grateful for plenty. Ben learns as much from his girls as they learn from him.
Ben’s Vibe & Wrapping Up
Ben’s energy feels calm, loving, and inspiring. Parenting children with autism isn’t easy. Still, it’s full of light. This chat leaves you smiling at the power of small victories.
Chapters
00:00 – Intro and meeting Ben before his friend arrives
00:56 – Dad of two girls with complex needs – autism & hearing loss
01:50 – Favourite times: early morning peace & bedtime cuddles
03:20 – Taking autistic daughter to Inside Out 2 – huge sensory win
04:45 – 5-year-old’s wisdom: joy lives after facing fear
05:58 – Celebrating everything, finding hope in small things
07:46 – Farewell and episode close
00:56 – Dad of two girls with complex needs – autism & hearing loss
01:50 – Favourite times: early morning peace & bedtime cuddles
03:20 – Taking autistic daughter to Inside Out 2 – huge sensory win
04:45 – 5-year-old’s wisdom: joy lives after facing fear
05:58 – Celebrating everything, finding hope in small things
07:46 – Farewell and episode close
Key Moments
- Parenting children with autism – 5-year-old & 2-year-old with hearing loss
- Early morning quiet & big bedtime cuddles
- Took autistic daughter to cinema – walked out dancing
- 5-year-old lesson: “joy comes after facing fear”
- Celebrate every tiny win – it’s everything
- Finding hope and gratitude in the chaos
- Parenting children with autism teaches dad as much as kids
Listen to the Full Conversation
Parenting children with autism – raw, hopeful, beautiful. Ben’s story is gold.Listen now on your favourite platform
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